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Post by totaltrauma on Apr 18, 2009 19:51:19 GMT -5
Thanks! Everything always works out. I'm not worried
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Post by Jude on Apr 18, 2009 19:57:21 GMT -5
♥
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Post by Barn Owl on Apr 19, 2009 14:49:05 GMT -5
HEART
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Post by Jude on Apr 19, 2009 15:15:28 GMT -5
i can't figure out why it won't work for some people :/
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Post by PurpleGrape on Apr 20, 2009 17:47:20 GMT -5
So, huge rant now:
Crystal called me on thursday afternoon and said 'I realized we haven't talked for a while and the only time I have to talk to you is when I'm in the car going somewhere else.' That kinda cause a wtf? moment but I talked to her anway. She spent nmost of the conveo talking about herself and half of the time left she spent texting the friend she was going to pick up. It pissed me off cause she didn't seem to care about me. And for the past 2 weeks before that she would hang out with me by taking me to thepark, talking about her problems then taking me home and that was that. She invited me to spend the night at her house once and also invited another friend (which I was okay with) but spent half the night texting other friends and ended up kicking us out early cause she suddenly made plans with the other friends she was texting. That pissed me off a bit too. So after she let me go by saying 'Sorry but I'm being rude to him' (please note, I do rather dislike this boy but that has nothing to do with it) I tookthe liberty of texting her, as not to disturb her time with him, that she should call me back when she has time to talk to me not at me. All i got backwas 'Im sorry' <written just like that, and I told her that's not what I wanted, that I wanted her to think about our relationship. I didn't hear anything from her through Sunday so I texted her to tell her that if she was ever going to talk to me again then I'd be more than willing to meet her. She came back with a bitchy response about being afraid to talk to be because she might talk at me instead and claimed that I was just jealous of the guy she was spending time with. I tried my best to keep totally level headed but she was making me really mad. Especailly when she told me I might as well crawl over to my other friend cause she muct care way more than she does. Now, I'm a horribly emotional person and have a horrible time with them and will freak out with ANY emotion for any reason and she was simply making my imbalance unbelieveably worse. I told her I couldn't deal with the emotional hell anymore to which she suggested I stop. Which is exactly what I tried to do when I asked her if she was done with our relationship to let me know because I wasn't going to cling to a dead body for very long and I wasn't willing to deal with the pain (i was raised to live in denial so the sooner I can get around to it the sooner I can pretend to feel better.) Her reply was 'Your a bitch' and she made the comment that I need her more than she needs me which hurt rather bad. So after that I simply told her 'ok, i'm sorry. i love and always will. hope everything goes well with John in the end.' I personally take 'you're a bitch' to mean, 'yes I'm done with you.' but Iguess I was wrong because she then scolded me for giving up on our relationship so fast. The whole thing ended up with me telling her that we were both talking out of anger and that she should call me when she can actually talk to me.
And today I saw that the friend who suddenly hated me for no reason wants to be friends again but won't tell me why he hated me in the first place and isn't talking to me face to face.
So, what do you do when your best friend, that one person who kinda gets you through everything horrible, and that you might be in love with, leaves you?
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Post by Jude on Apr 20, 2009 19:46:46 GMT -5
aww i'm sorry hun that sounds really tough. i think it might be ok though. it doesn't look like she's ready to give up.
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Post by spiderpig on Apr 25, 2009 21:09:11 GMT -5
Wrong. Relationshits. They're worse than chronic diarrhea.
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Post by Barn Owl on Apr 25, 2009 23:35:59 GMT -5
Aaaaaghhgehfiwigla edvs bb nmnsef,
I missed my 7 month anniversary. Damn.
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Post by Jude on Apr 26, 2009 7:48:11 GMT -5
aww
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Post by PurpleGrape on Apr 27, 2009 15:39:42 GMT -5
vrystal and I are on talking terms but things are still a bit off. I dunno. whatever. its sad how easily it to fall back into theway things are. It's fine though. I'm pretty comfortable with it now.
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Post by Jude on Apr 27, 2009 17:13:23 GMT -5
off i don't want you to have to settle *sad eyes*
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Post by Opheliac on Apr 28, 2009 19:43:28 GMT -5
*gives purpley hugs*
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Post by PurpleGrape on Apr 29, 2009 14:43:18 GMT -5
Thanks guys. I dunno, we'reokay I guess. Not as close as before but I guess I should have expected that. I kinda miss it, you know? That one person you can tell anything to, do anything with and be yourself around. That was her, but I guess not so much anymore. But that's why I have you guys, right?*hug*
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Post by Jude on May 5, 2009 10:41:15 GMT -5
yeah i know what you mean. but sometimes if you give it a chance that can come back *hopeful*
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Post by vanives on May 5, 2009 22:14:12 GMT -5
I was best friends with this one person for years and always there for her but then..she visited and stayed for 5 days and...trashed our place, ate all our food and was..terrible...had me spending money left and right when I had JUST lost my job (and would look for one for 3 months) over time I realized she was a huge drain on me always, emotionally specially. Unfortunately, (or, fortunately depending how you look at it....) my life has been so much easier since not having her in my life-its been more stable and upbeat. I was there for all her problems....she called my problems silly or stupid. Heres the thing. I was without work, for 3 months. I was having a couple problems with my bf, and I do not have my liscence. Why? My mom was teaching me how to drive, she had a stroke and LEGALLY couldn't teach me....or have me drive with her in the passenger seat. My dad wouldn't do it. I had my loans in deferment and was worried about getting food. i still need to go to the dentist. My mom had a hysterectomy and my grandpa is in declining health (he just got home from the hospital) and shes lving with her mom and dad, rent free, all she has to pay is for her student loans. (she failed college times or so) Its her parents car, and she gets free food. ALL they want is for her to get a job. She has one for 12 hours week. They'd like more than that since shes 22 years old and always sitting around eating free food and getting into trouble for things like speeding and drunk driving.
SO I say ...like..my life got a lot lighter, if you will, after she was no longer in it..alot less negative. Im already pretty negative myself, I hardly need help with that.
SO I dunno where that all came from. I guess I miss having a close friend, but know that she wasn't much of one.
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